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05-24-2007, 11:44 AM #1
Happy Birthday to...
ME!
31 years young today.
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05-24-2007 11:44 AM # ADS
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05-24-2007, 11:46 AM #2
Happy Birthday!!!
The man thong is wrong.
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05-24-2007, 11:52 AM #3
Happy Birthday, you are still just a kid!
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05-24-2007, 11:53 AM #4
31?? Life is just beginning. Congrats
Life is Good
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05-24-2007, 11:55 AM #5
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05-24-2007, 11:55 AM #6
Well I am going to back to school for a graduate degree. I'm thinking about having a kid (though hubby isn't on board), so that's on hold and might as well go back to school. I think I'm having an "early life" crisis.
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05-24-2007, 12:17 PM #7Originally Posted by ShanLife is Good
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05-24-2007, 12:23 PM #8
Maybe you need some background first... Afer 30 years of never, ever wanting to have a kid (I wasn't born with the mother gene I concluded), I am reconsidering. If hubby is going to stay home, then I need to make enough money to support a family.
Early life crisis indeed!
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05-24-2007, 12:27 PM #9Originally Posted by Shan
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05-24-2007, 12:41 PM #10Originally Posted by DirkHammergate
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05-24-2007, 12:42 PM #11Originally Posted by Shan
To have a kid and just dump them off to a daycare after 4 months is a huge detriment to the kids. If you are not planning on raising your kid or being there for them to support them in every life experience, you are better off enjoying your own life. Don't have kids for wrong reasons, it just leads to neglect, unhealthy kids and divorce. Sadly, I have experienced that with a lot of my friends and family.
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05-24-2007, 12:51 PM #12Originally Posted by Shan
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05-24-2007, 12:55 PM #13
One of us will plan to stay home. No one said "dropping off an infant at day care." But it makes sense for the person for the most supportive wage to support the family. Plus my H said he would love to stay home.
I have two years to think about it more (heck it took me this long to even have different thoughts!), because I'm not going to have a kid while going to school and working. I might as well shoot myself in the foot!
Everyone just says I'll change my mind one day. I guess I'm just waiting for that click, because there's nothing else I can do about that.
If you are not planning on raising your kid or being there for them to support them in every life experience
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05-24-2007, 12:57 PM #14
I agree that's not a good reason to have kids, especially if hubby doesn't want them. Get your education, have your career, save enough money to pay for a nursing home and they will be friendly to you (maybe).
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05-24-2007, 01:01 PM #15
I don't want to bring a child into this world until we both want it. I didn't say I was going to do it now!
Look I realize you people don't know me and I interjected a few lingering thoughts in the middle of something, without any of you having the full background of what I am dealing with or where I am in my life. So I understand your comments, but you don't know the real me.
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05-24-2007, 01:04 PM #16Originally Posted by ShanThe man thong is wrong.
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05-24-2007, 01:11 PM #17Originally Posted by Jaxx
We started our courtship on the same page about this, I'm the one who is waffling now.
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05-24-2007, 01:48 PM #18
Well, without knowing you, I can highly recommend kids. They're great. Before we started having kids, I was NOT stoked about the idea. But after the first, I was hooked.
Good luck with whatever you do.It's only "science" if it supports the narrative.
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05-24-2007, 01:50 PM #19Originally Posted by rockgremlin
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05-24-2007, 01:52 PM #20Originally Posted by Shan
I agree with sparker, have fun with your own life, finish your education, let your hubby ripe up on the idea of kids and then it will happen. But both of you are going to be ready for it and you will enjoy it that much more.
That said, you are a grown woman with your own mind set, and you will do whatever your heart desires :)
Back to the subject.... HAPPY 31st!
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