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fouristhenewone
10-23-2007, 10:06 AM
It's been a week, and I finally feel like I can keep it together enough to make this post.

Last Monday, as I was heading to a hotel in Tampa for business, my wife called me. She had come home to find Iluq, our 7 year old Malamute mix that we have had for 6 years, lying dead on our front lawn. A friend of ours that works right next door had found him in the middle of the road and moved him up to our lawn so that we could bury him. he had escaped from our back yard, and someone had hit and killed him and left him there without calling us, or checking if he was injured or suffering.

I don't blame the person for hitting our dog - he was out of the yard, and didn't have a lick of car smarts. I do think it's likely they were driving too fast in our residential area, he was hit and killed instantly it's likely, as there was no blood. That fact at least makes me happy, that he probably didn't suffer. I do blame them for not checking his tag and giving either my wife or myself a call, or stopping to see if he was suffering. In my neighborhood, that could have easily been someone's kid.

Anyhow. My point isn't to vent about that person, I've done that plenty. My wife took Iluq to the Uintas Tuesday and bury him where he belonged. My life is alot less interesting now, and there's a void there, a missing wild energy that can't be replaced. It's difficult to even look at pictures of him, he's just been such a huge part of our lives for so long.

Iluq - it's hard to go through life without you. You were a brother and a best friend. You'll never be forgotten and you can never be replaced.

R
10-23-2007, 10:13 AM
As dog lovers, Abby and I send you our sympathies.

COUNTRYBOY
10-23-2007, 10:16 AM
Thats to bad. I feel for ya. Been there too. Nice that he went to the Uintas.

marc olivares
10-23-2007, 10:17 AM
man, i'm sorry for your loss!

my wife and i just recently had to put down an extremely sick pet and it
wrecked me for weeks. losing a part of the family is no fun... :sad:

Randi
10-23-2007, 10:57 AM
My life is alot less interesting now, and there's a void there, a missing wild energy that can't be replaced. It's difficult to even look at pictures of him, he's just been such a huge part of our lives for so long.

Iluq - it's hard to go through life without you. You were a brother and a best friend. You'll never be forgotten and you can never be replaced.

I'm sorry you lost your friend Iluq. His picture is beautiful!
This kind of loss is extremely hard to bear, and I've faced similar.
Dogs are like kids and definitely part of the family!

It's sad that so much of our lives are spent filling voids left by circumstance, and it's worse when some insensitive ass is involved! I can't believe that the person didn

JP
10-23-2007, 11:32 AM
Sorry to hear that :cry:

Bo_Beck
10-23-2007, 11:55 AM
Sorry to hear about your best friend. I feel your pain, as I had to recently put mine down as well.

savanna3313
10-23-2007, 12:02 PM
Pets become just like family. I had to put my "baby" down after having him for 17 years. Most people say that it's best to go out and get another pet right away. I didn't get another one for 2 yrs. You just can't replace a pet - especially one who was really cool.

rockgremlin
10-23-2007, 12:14 PM
"pets are like kids..." :roll:

You people are weird. I would never give my kids food in a dish on the floor, or let them shit all over my neighbor's lawn.

Shan
10-23-2007, 12:15 PM
Oh my, I am so so terribly sad for your loss. Iluq is a gorgeous dog, I am so sorry he left this earth that way. My deepest sympathies.

orvis1
10-23-2007, 01:15 PM
That totaly sucks! We had our dog pass away on a camping trip at fish lake. We burried her in the forrest and every year we go an visit her, until they are gone you don't realize how attached you were to them!

Shan
10-23-2007, 02:19 PM
"pets are like kids..." :roll:

You people are weird. I would never give my kids food in a dish on the floor, or let them shit all over my neighbor's lawn.

It wasn't stated pets they ARE kids, or even human equivalents. They are part of the family though.

Saying pet people are weird while we are offer sympathy to fouristhenewone is just... weirder.

asdf
10-23-2007, 02:27 PM
Sorry about the dog.



I would never give my kids food in a dish on the floor, or let them shit all over my neighbor's lawn.

I can only dream of the day when I can train my kids to shit on my neighbors lawn.

Rev. Coyote
10-23-2007, 02:41 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss. When you are ready, I hope you will adopt a dog from the shelter and provide an obviously terrific loving home to another in need. This will help you heal, and help a dog.

R
10-23-2007, 04:01 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss. When you are ready, I hope you will adopt a dog from the shelter and provide an obviously terrific loving home to another in need. This will help you heal, and help a dog.

Adopting a dog can be an amazingly good experience. Here is our son adopting Max almost two years ago, and they've been best friends ever since...

http://family.richardbarron.net/chihuahuas/002maxmitch01.jpg

opskmallory
10-23-2007, 05:02 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your dog. You have my sympathies. I was never a big dog fan until my wife got me Haylee, our Mini-Schnauzer/Pomeranian mix, for my birthday last year. She's the closest thing to a child I have. I love her to death.

R.I.P. Iluq.

accadacca
10-23-2007, 05:25 PM
Condolences. I am really looking into getting a dog for the fam. Your compassion for your furry friend makes me want to get one even more.